We live in a world that constantly whispers the lie that we aren’t enough. When you’ve been through trauma, toxic relationships, or challenging family dynamics, it’s easy to feel like you’re “too much,” “not enough,” or somehow both at once. But you were never meant to carry those burdens alone. I’m here to walk alongside you, helping you reconnect with the strength God placed within you and rediscover the possibilities for a life filled with joy, peace, and relationships that help you flourish.
As your trauma-informed coach, I’m not here to “fix” you—because you aren’t broken. You may wonder, “If I’m not broken, why do I feel this way all the time?” I’ve been there, too. The truth is, the world often isn’t built to teach us how to love and accept ourselves, especially when we’ve had to survive deep hurt. Everywhere we turn, we’re met with messages that we need to be more, do more, or change who we are.
But let me remind you of this, friend: There is nothing wrong with who you are or how you’ve learned to survive. Those survival strategies were your lifeline. Now, it’s time to release the shame and reclaim your power, so you can break free from the patterns that no longer serve you. You are worthy of healing, peace, and a future filled with God’s abundant grace and goodness. Let’s step into that freedom together.
My role as your coach is to help you see that your struggles—no matter how overwhelming they’ve felt—do not define your worth or reflect anything broken within you. As a trauma survivor, certified trauma-informed coach, and licensed minister (ORDM), I am committed to guiding you toward self-compassion and acceptance, so you can move forward with renewed confidence, knowing that healing and joy are within your reach.
I create a safe space where you can rediscover the truth: you are adaptive, intelligent, creative, and whole. Having walked this path myself, I understand the loneliness and the longing to feel “normal” again. But friend, you are not alone. Together, we’ll release the weight of shame and rebuild the confidence to boldly step into the life you were created for.
With the right tools to care for your heart and honor your needs, you’ll find that you are capable of living a beautiful, purpose-filled life. You can thrive beyond your past and cultivate healthy, supportive relationships—exactly as you are, whole and worthy of every good thing.
After surviving toxic relationships and enduring deep emotional wounds, all I wanted was to escape the pain of my past. But instead of facing it with compassion, I tried to outrun it. I buried my hurt and shame, believing that healing meant “getting over” everything. Without realizing it, I kept falling into the same cycles—chasing the wrong people and holding myself back from the life I was meant to live. I thought something was wrong with me for not being able to move on.
It wasn’t until I embraced my healing journey that I discovered the truth: there was never anything broken about me. Through personal experience, trauma recovery training, and my work as a trauma-informed coach and licensed minister, I learned that healing isn’t about forgetting the past—it’s about creating safety within yourself, honoring your needs, and bringing compassion to every part of your story.
Now, I accept where I’ve been, see myself as a powerful survivor, and live a life filled with peace, purpose, and joy—without minimizing the pain I’ve endured.
Now I'm helping other survivors do the same.
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Kelly F.
Texas, USA
Working with Robin has been life-changing. I came to her feeling broken after years of toxic relationships, but through her compassionate coaching, I found the strength to rebuild my confidence and set boundaries I never thought possible. Robin’s faith-based approach helped me see that healing is within reach, and I now feel empowered to move forward with peace and purpose.
Susie P.
Bremen, Germany
Robin created a safe space for me to confront my past without shame. Her guidance helped me embrace my worth, even after everything I’d been through. For the first time, I feel free from the patterns that held me back for so long. She helped me find clarity, and I’ve learned how to care for myself in ways I never knew I needed.
Jon R.
California, USA
I was stuck in survival mode, overwhelmed by shame and self-doubt. Robin’s coaching helped me realize that I wasn’t broken—I just needed the right support to reconnect with myself. With her wisdom, encouragement, and practical tools, I’ve begun to live with confidence and build healthy relationships. I’m so grateful to have found her when I did.
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